I was in Massachusetts for a visit recently, and a beautiful friend asked me if there was anything that I'd been wanting to do. The first thing that came into my heart was that I'd been wanting to visit the Wayside Inn, a place that has a wonderful restaurant and also a beautiful environment to walk and explore. My friend said yes, even though I found out afterward that she hadn't known at first what place I was talking about. She is a gem to have said yes without knowing, just because she knew I"d been wanting to visit.
On the day that we went, she asked me for the address, and when I looked it up for her she saw that it was the place where her daughter had gotten married. The grounds of the Wayside Inn have different areas, and I'd been talking about the historic home part of it, but her daughter had been married by the grist mill. On our way over as we drove, I saw so many reminders of places where I'd been over the years with my Mother, and it brought back so many beautiful memories. When we arrived, and I saw the sign on the house that showed the date it had been built, I realized that the reason I'd been wanting to return is that it was built around the same period as the house where I grew up.
There is something very special about revisiting a place where you've loved to go that you haven't been to in a while, or at least there is for me. Our afternoon at the Wayside Inn was filled with so many beautiful moments, and I am so grateful to my friend for her willingness to bring me there. We had lunch after our walk around the grounds and after visiting the grist mill, and we took time to view the rooms upstairs where they have a museum and display before walking outside down the paths and roads and fields. One thing that I'd been wanting very much to have is Indian Pudding, something that I always loved to have there and that I'd learned to make because of how much I enjoyed it when I visited. It was still on the menu, and when I asked at the restaurant if they were still serving it, they were, and so I had a beautiful new memory reminding me of days gone by to cherish along with my meal.
One thing I found out this time that I hadn't known, thanks to reading some of the information at the mill and the lovely opportunity to speak with the Miller, is that Henry Ford was an important part of why the Wayside Inn exists. I had no idea all these years that he had walked these road and paths and created the mechanisms that kept things running into a new era, and that was an exciting thing to find out. As I plan for my own project that is part of another historic site, having the experience of walking along in the paths of memory helped me to see that all things are possible. Where once I had walked as a child, a teenager and a young adult, I can now walk and learn in a new way how to create an environment for and with the community that is as special as the places and spaces surrounding it.